When it comes to emotions, both boys and girls face the same emotions or feelings regardless of its intensity. But boys rarely express their feelings. Why is it so ? Since childhood they’ve been told that boys don’t cry. Why is that so ? I mean, ain’t they human? Indeed, boys are mentally stronger than girls but we should keep it in mind that all fingers are not of same size. There are so many boys out there who, maybe or may not be, are not that much strong the way they flaunt or pretend to be. Have you ever imagine that what do they do when they feel desperate or broken ? I guess, No!
Sad! Isn’t it? When a girl crys everyone comes up to sympathize her and cheer her up. But when a guy, who barely expresses his feelings, crys everyone mocks at him like are you a girl? Come on, Dude! Be strong, guys don’t cry, etc.
Our society has made up this mindset that if you’re a girl you can be submissive but if you’re you are a guy you can’t even cry. Like, whyyy??* I feel pity for boys in this particular matter. I mean, why do people come up with such insensitive attitude when it comes to deal with a guy feeling low? Yes, boys are less dramatic. They don’t create scene. They are mentally strong and of course, they don’t like to cry in front of anyone but still they do. Am I wrong? Probably, No!
Crying isn’t a bad thing. It cleanses your heart. So much hatred and grudge is washed away just by sheding tears. You actually feel light after crying. Only hardcore people don’t cry. Boys aren’t hardcore, they just come up with stronger personality. They too are vulnerable, they just don’t show it.
Even if you’re a very good observer you fail to see what a person is keeping inside. So many problems are just in our mind and not in real. They can be resolved just by talking about them. So try to communicate with people. At least, when you feel like a person is looking depressed or desperate talk to him. Don’t let your loved ones sleep without having a good conversation especially, when you feel like something is bothering them. 🙂